Relationship Propmts

Shared Vision & Active Contribution

A lasting partnership isn't just about love; it's about building a life together. This section is for assessing how you and your partner work as a team. The questions here will help you reflect on whether your relationship is a source of mutual empowerment and if you are both actively contributing to a shared vision for the future you are building.

These questions focus on whether partners are working together toward common goals and actively building a shared life.

(This section is all about how you and your partner work as a team to build a better life together. The questions address how the partnership helps each person grow.)

To what degree does your relationship empower you?
Could your life be better? If so, how is your partner helping you?
Does your partner use their time to attain more freedom for both of you?
To what degree is your partner an active participant in your personal growth and fulfillment?
Do you and your partner have a shared vision for your life together, and are your daily actions aligned with that vision?
How do you and your partner work together to overcome challenges, rather than letting them pull you apart?
What specific, proactive steps do you take to improve your relationship on a regular basis?

Responsibility & Self-Awareness

In any relationship, your greatest power lies in your own ability to take responsibility for your thoughts and actions. This section challenges you to look inward and honestly assess your own role in the partnership. These questions are designed to help you reflect on your willingness to grow, your commitment to the initial promises you've made, and your capacity for self-mastery.

(These questions delve into The Intentional Partnership's emphasis on individual accountability and the "Initial Agreement" to take responsibility for one's own feelings and actions.)

When you have a negative feeling or disagreement, do you take responsibility for your own thoughts and reactions, or do you expect your partner to solve the problem for you?
How have you changed or grown as a person specifically because of your relationship?
What "non-negotiables" did you define for your relationship, and are you both upholding them?
Do you know what your partner's core needs are, and are you actively working to meet them?

Emotional Connection & Intimacy

Beyond the day-to-day logistics, a thriving relationship is built on a foundation of emotional intimacy. This section explores the heart of your bond, inviting you to reflect on the depth of your connection, the level of trust and safety you share, and whether you truly feel known and seen by your partner. These questions are designed to help you gauge the health and resilience of your emotional bond.

(These questions explore the emotional depth and vulnerability required for a lasting, intimate bond.)

When was the last time you and your partner had a deep, philosophical conversation?
Do you feel you can share absolutely anything with your partner without fear of judgment?
Does your partner's presence bring you a sense of security and peace?
What specific actions do you take to show your partner that you choose them, even when it's difficult?

Individual Fulfillment & Well-Being

A truly great partnership should amplify your life, not diminish it. This section encourages you to reflect on your personal well-being and whether your relationship is a source of freedom, authenticity, and personal fulfillment. These questions are designed to help you gauge if the partnership is a platform for you to live a more empowered and fully-expressed life.

Do you feel you are fully expressed?
What do you get out of your relationship, freedom-wise?
To what degree does your relationship hinder your freedom?

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